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Your Fertility Mindset

Approximately 10 mins

Your Information

When filling in this scorecard, you'll be presented with a set of mindsets to read through. For each one, you'll rate where you currently are, and where you would like to be in the future. Once you've completed the scorecard, an email with your completed scorecard will be sent to you.

In order to begin, the following issues need to be addressed:

Mindset 1: A Vision of Parenthood

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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If it hasn't happened by now it is too late. You're furious that you didn't start sooner. You're so jealous of people who have children.
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You clicked on this link because you can't take the pain any more. You know you need help and hope you can find a way.
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You are satisfied with your treatment plan and secure that you found people with the best credentials. You are comfortable with your path.
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You have a dream of parenthood, a vision of holding your baby in your arms. You are on a journey toward that dream. You never lose hope.
10
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12
 

Mindset 2: The Best Expert You can find to help

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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You can't find a decent doctor because all they care about is money. There's no way I can find anybody who can help.
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Looking and looking but confused how to find the best doctor. You keep beating yourself up and feel lost.
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You're satisfied you found a high status practice that will follow industry standards. You don't need to look any further.
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You've learned to reach out and connect with a larger community to learn about different options. You keep growing as you go along.
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12
 

Mindset 3: Open to Try Different treatments

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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It's all over. You've had so much failure and frustration in your life that you are done with trying any new treatments.
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You're desperate to find the best treatment, and so tired of doing the same thing over and over for nothing. You're open to a different way.
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You are satisfied with your treatment and you don't need to think about the big picture. That's what the doctor is for.
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You are in search of bigger and better results, and you know there's always another pathway. You are confident you will find it.
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12
 

Mindset 4: You Listen and Seek to Understand

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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There's no point in listening because it's all over. None of it matters...what are you supposed to do about your medical issues?
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You are frustrated because you can't understand, and it all seems so complex. If you could just get it straight you would make progress!
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You don't need to understand because it's plug and play. You just follow protocols, and that is what is going to work. Status quo is key.
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You study this stuff like it's everything...you train yourself to ask questions and you work with your team to keep growing your options.
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12
 

Mindset 5: You Get Support from Friends and Family

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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You've always felt cut off, by yourself, and you feel hopeless about it. You need to go it alone, anyway. People just don't get it.
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You're tired of hiding the "secret" and anxious about sharing news with friends and family. Not sure how to proceed.
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You've set up routines in every area of your daily life so you don't need to go "psychological" and lean on family. You're fine.
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You have a loving network of support so no matter what happens you have connections. You are loved by family and lots of friends.
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Mindset 6: You Focus on the Positive

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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You hate everything when things go wrong. You need to fight to get people to do the right thing. Assume the worst and go from there!
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You almost give up from the pain sometimes. It is incredibly frustrating when things don't go to plan. You need to find a better way.
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You've always followed the best practices of the experts, so there's no need to second guess. There's no other way to succeed. Keep going.
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Mindset is the key. As long as you can keep learning about options, your future is always going to be bigger than your past!
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Mindset 7: You Stay on Vision

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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You are bitter. You find that every time you think about any kind of improvement, you can figure out why it isn't going to work.
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You are so very tired and frustrated by the process. It's time to make a leap to something better. There has to be a better way.
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You don't need to have a vision. You just need to follow the standard of care. One place is a lot like another, you just follow the steps.
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No matter what, you stay focused on the vision that brought you this far. You believe that only good can emerge from this no matter what.
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Mindset 8: A Partner with Your Medical Team

Select a number on each side, one for where you feel you score currently, and where you want to be.

Currently, I am I want to be
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You see your doctor and the medical staff and the whole profession as the actual problem. They don't care about anything but themselves.
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You are irritated by just doing the same thing over and over. You are searching for a better way and for a team that will work with you.
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You play your assigned role and follow your doctor's directions. You go to a reputable center and they have a solid method.
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You see your role as co-creator of a great adventure with the incredible staff you've selected. You enjoy working with your doc!
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